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    ClareBear posted a new activity comment 5 days, 21 hours ago

    In reply to: ClareBear posted an update Always strive to make things better. Never leave a place worse than how you found it, including someones life. View

    you’re so sweet all the time i hope we become closer !!

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    ClareBear posted an update 5 days, 21 hours ago

    To everyone who comments on my posts:

    I wish i had people like you guys around me in person because no one is supportive to me like how you are. I wish i went online more often because it would help me so much. Things are getting so intense and i really am holding on by a string, but i just want to thank you all so much for the love and support…[Read more]

    • Glad that the BT community is able to help, support and be there for you @clara332, you are such a fabulous person who deserves compassion, smile and always be beautiful inside and out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    ClareBear posted an update 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    Ever since i was little i have prayed to God to help me get out of this cycle of feeling unworthy and alone and i just wish he would finally listen. Over a year ago i met my current boyfriend and i thought he would finally be that person who is my true bestfriend and lately even around him i feel so alone. I just wish i could take off this mask…[Read more]

    • Don’t let sadness get you down @clara332, you are such a beautiful, amazing and wonderful person who deserves to have happiness, love and positivity in her life, please don’t harm yourself, stay focused on all the things that bring you brightness, hope and joy, everything will be OK, hold your head up high and know you are a survivor who will…[Read more]

    • @clara332 hey I’ve been there. Currently in a situation that’s similar. It’s tough but girl you must pull yourself out of it. If you need to, message me okay?

    • @clara332 People say that suicide is for cowards cause 1) if you kill yourself the problems will still remain, 2) you will hurt others equally, to the point someone might also kill themselves because you did it (fine example is Chester, the vocalist of Linkin park that died some weeks ago by hanging himself).

      Suicide my darling is no answer.…[Read more]

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    ClareBear posted an update 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    i wish i could one day wake up without this dark cloud over my head. Its such a horrible feeling when the person who’s supposed to be there is the one who feels the furthest away. We may be close in proximity but ive never felt so alone and so far from someone in my life.

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    ClareBear posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Franci posted an update ello all, I need some advice. My mom and I have been close as long as I could remember. We were the best of friends through childhood and I was way closer to her than any of my siblings […] View

    Alright, so dont take this the wrong way, but if you say your mother is your “enabler,” then that is a serious issue you and you shouldnt be around it. But, first of all, congratulations on everything that you have overcome, and congratulations on your accomplishments and on meeting someone who you feel is good for you. Every single relationship…[Read more]

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    ClareBear posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Jasmine posted an update I feel like I’m living in a dream lately. Thoughts on depersonalization or derealization? View

    i understand you 100% !! I tell people about this feeling and they just look at me like im crazy. It’s so strange because (idk if this happens to you) but sometimes i’ll be just doing a normal thing and it’ll hit me, like “holy crap i am real” and its such a strange feeling. Life doesnt feel like a real thing, and i just kind of live it day…[Read more]

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    ClareBear posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    In reply to: laylab95 posted an update So I was speaking with my so called best friend the other day, her phone died as I was crying my heart out. She have yet to call me back and only sent a text that she never responded to. […] View

    My mom has always told me, people are there in the good but they disappear in the bad. I understand your situation because its happened to me before. My advice to you is, that person is probably not going to be in your life for much longer, so focus on you and work on making yourself better and happier. Most people leave when things get difficult,…[Read more]

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    ClareBear posted an update 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    Always strive to make things better. Never leave a place worse than how you found it, including someones life.

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    ClareBear posted an update 3 weeks, 2 days ago

    This is so stupid and i resent myself so much for it. It feels like everytime i open my mouth i regret it soon after. I bring myself into these situations that do nothing but make me feel alone and make me feel like shit. Its like my life is this cycle of having things seem to get better and when i really think things are changing for me and im…[Read more]

    Mood : Ashamed
    • You are such a fantastic, amazing and special person who deserves a life filled with hope, brightness and happiness @clara332, things will be OK and everything will go great for you, focus on all the things that bring a smile to your face and hold your head up high, the future is filled with so much opportunity for you, believe in yourself and…[Read more]

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    ClareBear posted an update 3 weeks, 5 days ago

    everyone on this site is so amazing. i wish i had more time to log on, but i just want to say thank you to all of you for being so kind and caring.

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    • Always be the amazing person that you are @clara332, the BT community will always be here to support you and so will I, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    ClareBear posted an update 4 weeks ago

    im excited to finally go on a trip and do something this summer. Looking forward to college also, its the start of new great things. I just dont know if every aspect of my life is going to stay the same. I think i gotta let go of some stuff and some people

    • Oli replied 4 weeks ago

      I’m sure you will continue doing amazing things @clara332, stay positive and look forward as many more bright moments are ahead for you, smile and always be kind, confident and lovely, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • It’s easy to get wrapped up in the “right here, right now”. Don’t be afraid to move on. You should be excited for the future. You’re about to enter a new chapter of unchartered waters and that’s awesome. It is natural to outgrow a few friendships/relationships as you expand into the unique individual you are meant to become. Good luck…[Read more]

    • @clara332 sounds amazing. Enjoy yourself as much as possible and stay safe girl.

    • you’re right mama bear, don’t forget to pick me up so we can have a good time

    • That’s so great you’re going to school! I love learning new things I feel like it helps me be in a good mood (: and it’s also good that you think you need to cut some things or people out of your life- if your gut tells you to then you’re right<3

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    ClareBear posted an update in the group Group logoMusic 1 month, 1 week ago

    one of the songs that always gets me through hard times is Up With The Birds by Coldplay. its a great song, gives positive vibes

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    ClareBear posted an update 1 month, 1 week ago

    its funny how i have more friends in this page than in real life, and its even funnier that the people on this website care more about me than anyone i know

    Mood : Amazed
    • Right! I am so happy this site exists. Members here have helped get through tough time much more than any real -life friends I’ve ever had.

    • We are all here to support, help and be there for each other on BT @clara332, this community is filled with the most compassionate people, please know you are a much appreciated member of this site :) (hugs)

    • Blah is awesome and honestly if it wasn’t for the people on here, I wouldn’t even exist. Hope you’re doing well (:

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    ClareBear posted an update 1 month, 1 week ago

    i want to disappear. Things are just getting too hard at this point. I know they say whats easy isn’t worth it, but i don’t even want any of this. Its like im fighting without a will or a motive.

    Mood : Anxious
    • Please don’t let bad times get you down @clara332, you are such a fabulous and incredible person who deserves all the love and hope in the world, things will be OK and everything will work out for you, try to stay upbeat and focus on getting yourself to a good place emotionally and mentally, remember you are a fighter who will win all her battles…[Read more]

    • Hey if you want to talk, feel free to message me. I know how you’re feeling but you can not give up. You have a child who will rely on you for the rest of their lives and you will as well. It’s hard to see the bigger picture sometimes but your pain will pay off before you know it.

    • Don’t disappear! You are beautiful and it sucks that you’re unhappy. Maybe it’s time for a change. I realize that when you’re feeling low it’s difficult to put effort into trying new things. But please keep trying. I remember feeling so hopeless, during those times I thought that feeling would never go away. Although life hasn’t been…[Read more]

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    ClareBear replied to the forum topic THE ULTIMATE QUESTION! in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    i would jerk off, because ive always wondered what that feels like. oh and i would grow a beard

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    ClareBear posted an update 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    Life is so crazy right now. My two best friends broke up, my mom and stepdad are a huge mess. Im glad my boyfriend are i are doing better though. it can only go up from here, hopefully

    • @clara322 you been experiencing a lot but things can only get better from this point forward. I hope everyone in your life can find peace in theres soon.

    • Try to stay positive and know things will work out for you @clara332, hopefully everything with your friends and family will be OK, stay wonderful and surround yourself with hope and happiness, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @clara332 at least you and your bf are doing great, that’s some positive right? Try to focous on that and enjoy the moments with him and with time things slowly will get better too. Best of luck

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