- Mood : Drained
I would go to the vigil only if you feel completely ready and comfortable too @chynna323, I’m sure you will make the right decision that will benefit you, look after yourself and stay positive, you will be OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)
@chynna323 I suppose this is an event on your college right? Either way is not rude to go. You have a life, if you can’t go, you can’t. Is nothing personal to anyone. Just say ”sorry man I have finals tomorrow and I’m totally not ready”. And if someone tells you that you’re lame or something, screw that. What is the most important are your grades and future.
Best of luck
If you can’t go, it should be fine. Pay your respects before and afterwards. Don’t put extra stress on yourself.