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    PaperKites21 posted an update 21 hours, 54 minutes ago

    Ok, I am having thoughts about breaking up with my boyfriend. We have been dating since 2010 we also live together- have been for 2 years now. Five months ago, things between us have been fading, it could be me, it could be him; maybe it’s just both of us. I swear I love him, but lately we haven’t had a normal relationship. There is no sweet talk,…[Read more]

    Mood : Alone
    • You deserve a relationship that is strong and loving @paperkites21, I would try to talk to your boyfriend about being close and intimate, hopefully he will listen and try to make changes, I’m sure things will work out, do what you feel is best for you going forward, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Have you talked to him about this specifically, the way you’re describing now? Have you tried asking him what’s going on, or told him how it’s making you feel and why you don’t like to stay at home? There are many possible reasons to why he could be acting that way. Perhaps he’s more of an introvert, and is simmering down to a level more…[Read more]

    • @paperkites21 Some people would offer to help him with his rent for a few months just to buy themselves out of a remorse which would prevent them to break free, it’s an option if that’s one of the few things keeping you there.

    • What does your side guy suggest? I think shampoo person makes sense – offer two months, but move on now. You are not responsible for his career decisions, just yours. Let him be an adult.

    • @paperkites21 I’ve said this before but I’ll repeat it: if you’re not happy with someone, break up with him. If you already tried dozens of times to work things out, and it still didn’t work, break up. Why keep living a lie? Lying to yourself that you’re “happy” with him? You have your whole life in front of you and you’re blocking…[Read more]

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    laylab95 posted an update 2 days, 17 hours ago

    So it’s 2am here and I haven’t fell asleep yet. So much is on my mind and also just truly not tired. So odd.

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    laylab95 posted an update 5 days, 8 hours ago

    Here’s to another useless day.

    Mood : Alone
    • Try to have a fantastic day @layla95, fill your time with fun moments and activities that make you smile, you will be OK Layla, keep going forward and never give up, you can do it, I’m always here for you sweetie, inbox me anytime if you want to chat hun :) <3 (hugs)

    • @layla95 so sorry that happened. I’m always around Blah so if you need company feel free to message me ok? We’re all here for you

    • @marikofujimoto I’m messaging you now if that’s fine.

    • -hugs- we are here for you :) and that includes me.

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    laylab95 posted an update 6 days, 7 hours ago

    So I called my granny crying and nearly begging her to get me out of the house today and she yelled at me saying I need a job and I told her you people (as in my entire family) act like I never tried to look for a job midway in the conversation, she hung up on me. I tell you, with a life like this, who would want to really live.

    Mood : Lonely
    • Don’t let your grandmother be horrible to you @layla95, your family should give you all the love, support and encouragement in the world Layla, I want to see you being cared for by those closest to you sweetie, try to go out and have fun if you can, live each day to the fullest Layla and keep being the special angel that you are, you can do it…[Read more]

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    PaperKites21 posted an update 6 days, 22 hours ago

    As some of you may know, i have some complications in my life, some it is on me. i know how to fix it, but sometimes i don’t know what’s best for me or anyone, anymore.. I will say the past 4 moths have been very complicated, but i am happier. I have a side-guy. (try not judge) – i guess technically we have been dating for 4 months, he and I…[Read more]

    Mood : Calm
    • No, even with an open relationship it would be crossing the boundaries its just sex and nothing more. You are leading him on meeting his parents also the fact you have been “dating” him is a major red flag. If he is a side guy, its just that a side guy; he is growing on you and you need to make a decision either now or later, but it will be…[Read more]

    • I would do what you feel is right for you @paperkites21, hopefully you will meet his parents at some point and you will make a decision about where your feelings are regarding your current boyfriend, personally I would focus on the person that makes you the most happiest, everything will work out, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat…[Read more]

    • You should def meet his parents and just totally live in the present and throw the future to the wind. It will be what it will be, and while our choices craft the road we walk on, worry about the bridges when they arrive. Emotions are fickle anyways, so just get what you want for yourself, and let everyone else fend for themselves. Or not.

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    laylab95 posted an update 1 week ago

    So I finally called up to the place where I went to drivers school at and I told them how mean the guy was to me and how I feel like I waisted my money because I still don’t feel comfortable enough to drive just yet. The lady talk to me like I was below her and like I was some dumb child. I got nowhere with her and eventually just hung up in her…[Read more]

    Mood : Pissed off
    • Steve replied 1 week ago

      i don’t know what country you are in, but sometimes you have to go up the chain of command, asking for her/his manager. I don’t know if that would help you or not.

    • @tanisha I live in the US and believe it or not, but I was speaking with the manager. If I didn’t hang up when I did I probably would’ve had my issue escalated to my dmv and got my license revoked which isn’t even worth it.

    • Oli replied 1 week ago

      Don’t let anyone be horrible to you on the phone or in person @layla95, I’m sure you will find a good driving school where they teach well and treat you with kindness, try to stay positive and keep going Layla, you can do it, I’m always here for you sweetie, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • @oliver unfortunately I can’t afford to pay another$300+ for driving school again but thanks

    • @layla95 Maybe there’s a Yelp-thingy for business in your area where you can leave your opinion about their practices.

    • @layla95 next time say “very well I want to file a complain” , you ask for the complain book, you’ll see how terrified they get. Complains give a SUPER bad reputation to the place. Don’t be scared to express how annoyed you are, after all 1) you’re a client, 2) you’re paying. They have to shut up and have a good policy with the client. That…[Read more]

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    laylab95 replied to the forum topic Gender Fluidity in the group Group logoSexuality Questions 1 week ago

    @kornykid @marikofujimoto is right. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to dress feminine one day and boyish the other days. That’s kind of where the term “tomboy” come in at. If it’s your sexuality, talk to […]

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    laylab95 posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    So I guess my Saturday will be stuck in the house watching lame tv and pecking at a phone that no one never calls or texts. What a life.

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    laylab95 posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    So I think there’s a chance that I will get a cheap, running car from my uncle’s friend but here’s the catch, my granny may try to buy it too. Since my uncle will try to let his mom have the first chance, it will be useless. Can’t say that I’m as hopeful as I was when i first heard about it.

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    laylab95 posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    @Gleb I love sushi! Especially spicy. What’s your favorite? Hope you are well

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    laylab95 posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    My day was filled with a painful headache… Going to watch shark tank for a few hours and fall asleep. Goodnight you guys.

    Mood : Tired
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    Viskronika posted an update 1 week, 4 days ago

    Bark.

    Mood : Lethargic
    • Are you OK? @miserystoy, I’m always here if you need to talk, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    laylab95 replied to the forum topic Am I wrong here? in the group Group logoGeneral 1 week, 5 days ago

    I want to wish you a happy birthday firstly and I have to agree with Mariko. You’re not selfish or anything you’re a freaking human being that once to be celebrated. I recently spoken in the sense about myself […]

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