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    laylab95 posted an update 15 hours, 55 minutes ago

    So today was very lame. I hate talking to people because once they remove themselves from my life, I wake up with an emptiness and sleep with it as well. You get use to someone telling you good morning and good night and everything in between. Life is suppose to be freaking fulfilling not dull. I feel like I’m just waiting for death to consume me…[Read more]

    Mood : Gloomy
    • You are such a kind and sweet person who deserves good people around her @layla95, anyone who leaves you isn’t worth it Layla, someone as lovely as you will find happiness with her soulmate, don’t let life’s struggles get you down, you are a survivor who will win all her battles, believe in yourself and keep going forward sweetie, smile and…[Read more]

    • Thank you very much oli

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    laylab95 posted an update 2 days, 1 hour ago

    So after the support of you guys, I decided that I will fight this in court. I don’t have much proof since everything was said verbally in person but I will get my money back! If the court doesn’t side with me, I can make an appeal and if that doesn’t go through, I will go to the local news and newspapers telling them my story. Verbal bindings…[Read more]

    Mood : Accomplished
    • Hope you manage to get your money back from him @layla95, don’t let anyone take advantage of you Layla, you are a beautiful, incredible and special woman who deserves to be treated right, find the right lawyer and I’m sure the court will side with you, take care of yourself sweetie, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to…[Read more]

    • @layla95 Be strong sweetheart and make your voice always be heard. In fact this story might help alot of people to (sadly) not trust their partners as much. Sometimes our pain can be a lesson to others.

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    laylab95 posted an update 3 days ago

    My ex won’t respond to my messages. I was thinking about taking the issue to small claims court (I have a lot of money gone!) but the catch is, I can’t do it in my town. I have to do it in his town which is an hour away. I don’t have a car and my family is saying that they’re not going to take me to go file a claim. I’m officialy screwed.

    Mood : Bewildered
    • Speak to a lawyer who specializes in such claims. Make sure you have all the paper work and receipts regarding to what you have provided to your ex. Having a precise timeline of what went down from the very moment of your first encounter with your ex will help give a picture of your perspective (including all texts and phone calls). Not all the…[Read more]

    • I agree with @cyrax, try to file a claim to see if you can get your money back and see if you can get someone to drive you to the right location so you can set everything up correctly @layla95, hopefully you will find a good lawyer who can help you Layla, don’t let your ex take advantage of you sweetie, hope things go OK, feel free to inbox me…[Read more]

    • @layla95 I agree with what was said above, for real search for some help. That guy is clearly going away with your money and that’s simply not fair

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    laylab95 posted an update 3 days, 5 hours ago

    So my ex did not respond about handing over my money. That’s too much money to have as a lost. I don’t know what to do. I need my money!

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    laylab95 posted an update 4 days, 2 hours ago

    So yesterday I forced myself to eat something finally. I still ache and cry on and off throughout the day. I texted my ex since he broke up with me about can i come over in May to get my much needed money back since he say he can’t pay it back in April because of his car. Hopefully he will just say okay so i can finally have that weight off my…[Read more]

    Mood : Anxious
    • @layla95 I wish you all the luck in the world for that.
      Also really proud of you that you got to eat something :) Keep going darling, you can do this. You’re doing great

    • Oli replied 4 days ago

      Do eat and look after yourself @layla95, hopefully your ex will pay you back Layla, do try to stay positive and move forward with your life Layla, remember you are so special sweetie, I want to see you truly happy, everything will be OK, keep going and never give up, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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    laylab95 posted an update 5 days, 16 hours ago

    I haven’t eaten in 3 days now. I still have a strong pain in my chest that only a heartbreak can conquer. I don’t feel the need to eat and drinking fluids is a hard task at the moment. I hope I can build up my appetite by tomorrow.

    Mood : Disgusted
    • Please eat and take care of yourself @layla95, your heartbreak will heal because you are amazing, beautiful and lovely inside and out Layla, you will meet someone your soulmate and knight in shining armour sweetie, a strong relationship will happen to you Layla, try to be positive and keep going, you can do it hun, I’m always here if you need to…[Read more]

    • @layla95 please try to eat something, or if you can’t drink liquids. Can be tea, water, smoothies, anything you like ok? You have to love yourself, you can’t let a guy put you down like this :( You’re such a wonderfull person, you deserve better. I’m sending hugs and good vibes so hopefully tomorrow you feel a bit better to at least drink…[Read more]

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    laylab95 posted an update 6 days, 18 hours ago

    The first official day of me being single and I’m not doing well about it. I have this “knot” in my stomach that’s been here since he called it off yesterday. I been crying on and off and when I try to sleep, all I see is him which makes my stomach hurts even more. I now know what amy winehouse meant by wake up alone. This not my worse break…[Read more]

    Mood : Alone
    • Please don’t be upset @layla95, you are such a special and incredible angel who deserves a lot better Layla, don’t give up on finding true love, someone amazing will come into your life, a relationship with a partner who will stick by you and be supportive will happen Layla, stay positive sweetie and believe in yourself, remember you are…[Read more]

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    laylab95 posted an update 1 week ago

    So after knowing Erick for 3 months and next Friday about to be our 2 month anniversary, he have called it quits. Said that he only sees us as friends and always have. I gave this boy my body, heart, money, and time just to end up alone again. If there is a God he is truly a ruthless one. Can’t stop crying and I just want to die.

    Mood : Depressed
    • Oli replied 1 week ago

      Please don’t feel sad @layla95, you deserve so much better Layla, you will meet someone who will always love you sweetie, a wonderful and supportive partner will come into your life Layla, hopefully you can still remain friends with him, but he has chosen to lose an incredible, special and kind girlfriend, everything will be OK, stay focused on…[Read more]

    • @layla95 I’m so sorry for what happened darling, relationships can seriously be a pain sometimes. But honestly I agree with @oliver here you deserve much better. You’re a great person and beautiful inside and out. You need a partner who respects you and loves you no matter what.
      My advice is today you cry it all out, eat a massive ice cream…[Read more]

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    laylab95 posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    So my “boyfriend” have been off every Tuesday for the past 2 weeks and say he wants to see me but have no gas money. I would easily give him some but why should I? I been so much financially for him and haven’t seen not a penny of it back yet. He has a job which I’m not sure what he’s doing what his paychecks (I hope saving every penny to…[Read more]

    Mood : Disappointed
    • Your boyfriend really should try to see you and be there for you @layla95, hopefully he will pay you back the money Layla, don’t let him take advantage of you sweetie, I want to see you being loved and cared for hun, hope things work out Layla, feel free to inbox me anytime if you need to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • @layla95 darling if he has money from his paychecks and doesn’t have money from his gas , something fishy is going on. I think you should ask him honestly, cause he can’t ask you for money without telling you what he’s doing with the one he gets from his job. I hope he’s not taking advantage of you cause you’re too sweet for that, you don’t…[Read more]

    • @marikofujimoto the money i let him borrow from me was for his probation and dui school. He has been working like 70 hours a week for a month now which he have gotten 2 paychecks so far. I haven’t heard him say once about paying me anything back. I’m trying to be fair and not bring it up at least not yet. Besides paying a cell phone bill and…[Read more]

    • Thank you @Oli :)

    • @layla95 you’re not stupid, like you said you were being a supportive girlfriend. You have a good heart and you care about him. Is not your fault he’s using the money on something else. Don’t be yourself up, you’re truly a sweet person

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    laylab95 posted an update 1 week, 4 days ago

    Even though I have majority of my family alive on both my mother and dad side and in a relationship, I still technically have no one. I have been having a hard time expressing myself both verbally and emotionally since I know I will break down very hard. I don’t want to do that over a text or phone call even. My people whom are here physically…[Read more]

    Mood : Alone
    • Your family should give you all the love, support, care and encouragement in the world @layla95, you deserve amazing people around you who will help you through your struggles, please keep fighting and never give up, do get your feelings out in a good way Layla, remember the Blah community will always be here for you Layla and so will I, you are…[Read more]

    • @layla95 One of my favourite movie quotes is “Do not pity the dead, pity the living” and I believe this quote applies to this. You don’t need to experience the lost of a family member to feel how lonely you are. The world is just cruel, specially to people who are not in the best moment of their lives. But I believe good things come to good…[Read more]

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    Oli posted an update 1 week, 5 days ago

    I feel so alone, depressed and sad, I’m trying my best to be positive but no matter how hard I try nothing ever seems to work out for me, I want to crawl into a ball and disappear, what is my purpose on this earth?, I can’t seem to enjoy anything, all I see for my future is more loneliness, darkness and pain, Oli you are a failure and will…[Read more]

    Mood : Sad
    • Oli… You’re one of the most compassionate, kind, and warmhearted people I’ve ever known in life. You do not deserve to be in so much pain, and I’m sorry that you feel down in the dumps… I’m here if you need someone to talk to, please stay strong. You’re not alone… We are here for you

    • @oliver I agree with @strideintomyoffice , you’re seriously the best person on this website. You’re so kind and sweet to everyone, you always help without questions asks. To many people here you are a friend, family and even a hero. So remember that ok? We love you alot and want the best for you. And if you need to vent you can talk to us! it’s…[Read more]

    • You’re one of the best people I know trust me! It’s always the great, selfless people in life that doesn’t see their beauty and greatness. You’re so amazing. I hope one day I can find a physical best friend (even husband!) like you. You’re the epitome of amazing. Seriously @oliver if it wasn’t for you and @marikofujimoto I probably would’ve…[Read more]

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    laylab95 posted an update 1 week, 5 days ago

    I woke up early this morning hoping to see my kitten forgetting that she’s gone. It may sounds like I’m being dramatic to others but I firstly never dealt with death of a human so far and what can i say? I love animals since their truly the most innocent of them all (besides babies.) I wanted to cry and talk it out to someone all day but…[Read more]

    Mood : Crushed
    • @layla95 is not dramatic, never apologise for your feelings. You’re allowed to feel. I’m just so sorry you’re going through so much emotional pain.
      I seriously hope people there wake up and give you the love and attention you need at the moment.
      Much love from here darling, wish you the best

    • I’m so sorry @layla95, remember your beautiful kitten will always love you Layla, as @marikofujimoto says you deserve to be surrounded by people who will show you care and support, smile and never give up sweetie, you will be OK, I’m always here if you need to chat, feel free to inbox me anytime Layla, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

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    laylab95 posted an update 1 week, 6 days ago

    So I think a stray cat that I been taking care of since she was a baby was killed last night either by a car or my mom’s boyfriend (he was drunk and arguing with my mom outside 2 o’clock in the morning) I overheard bits and pieces of my mom saying you killed the cat and him saying you didn’t like her anyways but it all felt like a dream. After…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • I’m so sorry that happened to your special pet @layla95, do your best to remember all the happy moments you spend with your cat Layla, your mother and her boyfriend really should try to make things better and take responsibility for their actions, please don’t feel alone sweetie, I care about you Layla and so do many people in the Blah…[Read more]

    • @layla95 I’m so sorry darling :( . I really hope you take some time to get over the lost. It’s something hard to get through.
      About talking you have me if you want. I know it’s not the same cause either me or @oliver are not there, but we’ll try our best here to help you. We care about you!

    • Thank you @marikofujimoto and @oliver. You guys truly mean a lot to me. I give you both my virtual hugs and kisses.

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