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    bigheart867 posted an update 5 years, 11 months ago

    So I’m pregnant and the father doesn’t want to be with me. He seemed like he was excited when we found out – he was with me everyday and made sure I was cared for and loved – then all of a sudden it all stopped – he didn’t come around anymore, called me everyday. Then the calling everyday stopped. And now he sporadically pops into my text messages…[Read more]

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    • No you are not wrong for this

    • The father of your child really should be there for you @bigheart867, he should show you how much he cares and loves you and your beautiful baby, you deserve so much better, he has absolutely no right to abandon you during this time in your life, I would try to talk to him and let him know how you feel, it’s totally his choice to listen and make…[Read more]

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    bigheart867 posted a new activity comment 6 years ago

    In reply to: bigheart867 posted an update I have just figured out that I’m in a relationship with a narcissist – and it’s the scariest thing I have ever experienced. I’m currently being ghosted by him because I caught him […] View

    That’s not what’s important

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    bigheart867 posted a new activity comment 6 years ago

    In reply to: bigheart867 posted an update I have just figured out that I’m in a relationship with a narcissist – and it’s the scariest thing I have ever experienced. I’m currently being ghosted by him because I caught him […] View

    Thank you for always having an encouraging word!

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    bigheart867 posted a new activity comment 6 years ago

    In reply to: bigheart867 posted an update I have just figured out that I’m in a relationship with a narcissist – and it’s the scariest thing I have ever experienced. I’m currently being ghosted by him because I caught him […] View

    I think you are absolutely right…..he still talks to me, but there’s no emotions or connection whatsoever, and his tone just sounds like he’s irritated by me but yet, he still calls me. This is so crazy

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    bigheart867 posted an update 6 years ago

    I have just figured out that I’m in a relationship with a narcissist – and it’s the scariest thing I have ever experienced. I’m currently being ghosted by him because I caught him still communicating with his ex – and I’m currently 9 weeks pregnant. He’s punishing me because I called him out so he’s choosing not to be around me and barely talk to…[Read more]

    Mood : Alone
    • You need to leave him if he is a narcissist because those people are so dangerous to your health!

    • I think you are absolutely right…..he still talks to me, but there’s no emotions or connection whatsoever, and his tone just sounds like he’s irritated by me but yet, he still calls me. This is so crazy

    • Oli replied 6 years ago

      Don’t let him have any power over you @bigheart867, you deserve someone who treats you with unconditional love, support and happiness, your partner should show you kindness, respect and dignity, I would leave this horrible guy and move on with your life as best you can, I want to see you being cared for and appreciated, remember you are a…[Read more]

    • Thank you for always having an encouraging word!

    • You’ll get at him with child support

    • That’s not what’s important

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    bigheart867 posted an update 6 years, 1 month ago

    Some thing I don’t think I will ever understand – like WHY do I keep putting myself in the same position with the same guy for the past 4 years?! All bc of love and the hope that this will turn out to be something….if it was something it would have been 4 years ago! Now I’m just setting myself up to keep getting hurt but how I can let go of…[Read more]

    • You are such a special, beautiful and amazing person who deserves to be in a strong relationship where you are loved, appreciated and supported by your partner @bigheart867, talk to your partner and let him know how you feel, be honest with him about how you want things to be in the relationship, I’m sure things will work out for you, stay…[Read more]

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    bigheart867 posted a new activity comment 6 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: bigheart867 posted an update Many people like the idea of you but lack the maturity to really handle you….This is so true. Many people in my life have always felt the need to control me and tell me who I should […] View

    Thanks for always being encouraging and uplifting!

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    bigheart867 posted an update 6 years, 2 months ago

    Many people like the idea of you but lack the maturity to really handle you….This is so true. Many people in my life have always felt the need to control me and tell me who I should have in my life. It’s like some want to preserve me for use st a later date. “Oh I’m not ready for you now but let me wrap you up in all these blankets called words…[Read more]

    Mood : Confused
    • You deserve someone in your life who will treat you right with all the respect, love, kindness and dignity in the world @bigheart867, I want to see you being appreciated and cared for, don’t let anyone control or bring you down, smile and know you will meet your soulmate, stay upbeat and keep going, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to…[Read more]

    • Thanks for always being encouraging and uplifting!

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    bigheart867 posted an update 6 years, 2 months ago

    A good friend of mine passed away in May of last year and I have yet to go to her grave sight. But today I went and found her…and cried my eyes out. I miss her. She died a month before her 40th bday.

    • I’m so sorry for your loss @bigheart867, do remember all the happy times you spent with your friend, all the times she made you smile, laugh and feel good, focus on all the positivity she brought to your life, you will be OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)

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    bigheart867 posted an update 6 years, 2 months ago

    Are there any loyal people and good friendships left on this planet????

    • Everyone deserves caring, loyal, compassionate and loving friends around them @bigheart867, you do too, I want to see you truly smiling and surrounded by good people who will always stick by you, a strong friendship that makes you feel positive will happen to you, remember you are amongst friends in the BT community, keep going forward and never…[Read more]

    • @bigheart867 was wondering the same today…

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    bigheart867 posted an update 6 years, 2 months ago

    One of these days I’m going to matter to somebody. One of these days I’ll have someone in my life who treats me as a priority instead of someone to talk to in your spare time. Because I know that I am worth all of that and then some. So I’ve been backing off and letting people go. I know who really cares about me, not just out of convening bc they…[Read more]

    • You are a fantastic, beautiful and amazing person who deserves to have a strong bond, friendship or relationship with someone special @bigheart867, we all need caring, supportive and kind people in our lives, you do too, smile and know so many people are here for you, the BT community will always be there for you and so will I, smile and always be…[Read more]

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    bigheart867 posted a new activity comment 6 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: bigheart867 posted an update Having an emotional week…. View

    You are awesome thank you for that message!

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    bigheart867 posted an update 6 years, 2 months ago

    Having an emotional week….

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    • I don’t want to see you feeling sad, down or upset @bigheart867, you are such a fabulous, special and amazing person who deserves all the love and happiness in the world, hold your head up high and focus on all the things that bring joy into your life, everything will be OK, smile and believe in yourself, you can do it, keep going forward with…[Read more]

    • You are awesome thank you for that message!

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