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    aireens posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    i was raised in a family where we were taught obedience is the best way to show respect and love to your parents. im a silent type of person when i stepped into college i experienced having friends where i was gradually being “trained’ to just keep quiet and now that im out of that circle im having a hard time finding my voice…
    it is so hard…[Read more]

    Mood : Discontent
    • Do express yourself openly and honestly @aireens, I know how you feel Aireens, I’m a shy, awkward, quiet introvert too, try your best to break out of your shell and mix with as many people as you can, spread your personality around and find things you enjoy and love sweetie, I want to see you truly happy and surrounded by fun, laughter and…[Read more]

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update I can’t do this anymore…why bother?, it’s better to give up on life because things will forever be dark, bleak, depressing, sad and hopeless, seriously if death came for me, I would be […] View

    oli nooo dont ever think of that you are a great person! pm me! lets talk :(

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update i mean dang we don’t have to be twins but I’d like it if you liked at least some of the things I do and see the beauty in the things that i Do. View

    i know right, i mean are the things were interested really that rare that its so hard to find people that could relate or appreciate it

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update anyone else experience the feeling of regret when they share a very personal thing to someone? what do you call this if theres a specific term for this feeling? View

    aww thank you oli! i think because ive heard that in order to connect with others one must not be afraid to share and be vulnerable to them… the problem is the people im talking doesnt seem to have that mindset

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update You drain my energy but it’s like I’ll gladly give my energy to you View

    a love and hate that feelings lmao

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    aireens posted an update 2 weeks ago

    anyone else experience the feeling of regret when they share a very personal thing to someone? what do you call this if theres a specific term for this feeling?

    • Oli replied 2 weeks ago

      Only share personal things if you feel comfortable and if you truly trust that person @aireens, I want to see you surrounded by people who will stick by you and remain loyal to you Aireens, everything will be OK hun, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent Aireens, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • aww thank you oli! i think because ive heard that in order to connect with others one must not be afraid to share and be vulnerable to them… the problem is the people im talking doesnt seem to have that mindset

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Postive Vibes posted an update Hey guys i had a question and just wanted your views on it if a girl goes to visit her boyfriend in a hotel room as he is staying over in her city is that bad? At this point she is […] View

    i dont think its bad. although i hope her boyfriend or the place is not dangerous tho.

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7tXLJ8CJWBsbecause I’m turning 23 today x) View

    Happy bday!!! hope youre having a good one!!

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update im gonna graduate with my Psychology degree but ironically i just realized i want to take up VetMed instead….should have started with vetmed instead View

    thank you cecelia! a very positive point of view i need to take! :D

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update im gonna graduate with my Psychology degree but ironically i just realized i want to take up VetMed instead….should have started with vetmed instead View

    thank you oli! i will!! hopefully my brain can still keep up hahaha! :D

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    aireens posted an update 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    im gonna graduate with my Psychology degree but ironically i just realized i want to take up VetMed instead….should have started with vetmed instead

    • Do be proud of yourself for graduating @aireens, but remember to always do what makes you truly happy Aireens, follow your dreams and make all your goals come true Aireens, stay positive and know you will be successful, keep going forward and never give up sweetie, you can do it Aireens, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong,…[Read more]

    • It’s never too late to change career paths TBH and those are both great things – so you should be proud and supportive of yourself :)

    • thank you oli! i will!! hopefully my brain can still keep up hahaha! :D

    • thank you cecelia! a very positive point of view i need to take! :D

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: jetstream posted an update concept: imagine if i’d been taught how to properly/healthily deal with emotions as a kid View

    do you any suggestions or idea on how to teach kids on how to deal with their emotions?

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 2 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update i realize to have a deeper bond with someone you actually gotta care abou them… and i realize i dont care about others but myself…………how the hell do i change this. View

    @oliver thank you!! i will try to be positive :)
    @universalwoman ive been asking myself that, im still in the process of it tho but im thankful that you have given me this other way to cope with this feeling thank you!
    @invincible cecelia thank you those words “dont punish yourself” really lifted my spirits up! i will try and use this as a way…[Read more]

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    aireens posted an update 3 months ago

    i realize to have a deeper bond with someone you actually gotta care abou them… and i realize i dont care about others but myself…………how the hell do i change this.

    • Oli replied 3 months ago

      You are such a caring, compassionate and lovely person who makes others smile and feel wonderful @aireens, be kind to yourself Aireens and always spread brightness, happiness and joy as much as you can, you will meet someone who you will have a deep bond and strong relationship with, everyone deserves good people around them, you do too Aireens,…[Read more]

    • Hey Aireens, have you ever asked yourself why you feel like you only care about yourself and not anyone else? Once you find that answer you can change. When they say the truth will set you free it applies to a lot of things and in this case, if you find what the answer is you can better handle what it is you want to change or in other words…[Read more]

    • it takes time, take it slowly and don’t punish yourself if you don’t change automatically .:)

    • Good advice from everyone that responded so far. I just wanted to add that you’re correct, in order to create a deeper bond with an individual, there is a need to care for that person. But, caring for someone cannot be forced or manufactured. It will happen naturally when you find someone, you’ll develop feelings and the bond will be a…[Read more]

    • @oliver thank you!! i will try to be positive :)
      @universalwoman ive been asking myself that, im still in the process of it tho but im thankful that you have given me this other way to cope with this feeling thank you!
      @invincible cecelia thank you those words “dont punish yourself” really lifted my spirits up! i will try and use this as a way…[Read more]

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Eagergreen posted an update Jeez, it’s been a long time since I’ve been on here! My last post made me cringe and I’m all remiscent feeling. Crazy to think about where I was two years ago and where I am now. View

    glad to hear this! i wish for more happiness to come your way!

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: BlackRabbit posted an update So I cheated and just weighed myself at 224.6 lbs. I started at 228.8 on the 1st of this month and its only the 4th. So I am really excited. I haven’t done anything except add a […] View

    congrats! such a wonderful way to start the year! keep it up~

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    aireens posted an update 3 months, 1 week ago

    hi anyone up to just listen to me vent? i would go to the vent chat but im not free for long period of time
    i dont think my problem is super huge?? but for once i just want to be fully honest to someone

    • What’s on your mind @aireens, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent Aireens, you can talk to me or any member of the BT community, you are such a lovely person and I want to see you happy :) (hugs)

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update DROPPING those who refuse to change to positivity. View

    2018 mood

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 4 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update Anyone here i can talk to about school/career choice related things? View

    @marikofujimoto thank you! I feel relieved

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update Anyone here i can talk to about school/career choice related things? View

    Thank you oli! Really , im just having those sad days
    And these diubts in my mind arent makings things any better
    But i will try to use your words to look into a different perspective!! Thank youu

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