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    mariko posted an update 6 years, 11 months ago

    And I swear to god if I get any hurtfull comments like it has been happening on my posts when I’m this hurt, it won’t end up well. Save your sassy side somewhere else. I’m hurting.

    • @marikofujimoto I’m sorry you’re hurting, have people been harassing you on here? I haven’t seen problems really other than on the anonymous chat, but I haven’t been around too long either

    • Don’t let anyone be horrible to you @marikofujimoto, I want to see you being treated with love, kindness, care and respect on this site Mariko, please know the Blah community will always be here for you and so will I, you are a much valued member of this community sweetie, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • Why has my post been copied and pasted here @marikofujimoto and @tanisha, just curious :)

    • Well I am on this site to help others and make them smile @tanisha, I reply to just about everyone because I truly want to support the members of the Blah community, users do PM me, they can always message me as my inbox will be open to anyone if they ever need to talk :) (hugs)

    • @tanisha I suggest you to understand the conncept of the blah community. There have been things going on that I haven’t liked, but what happened on this post is absolutly ridiculous and childish. Oliver genuinly helped me ALOT during years. For you might be a chance to be a smartass with your sarcasm, but Oliver helped alot of people before you were a part of this community. And as a community we all want to get along and support each other, NOT to put sarcasm into everything and not give a damn about people’s feelings. To you might be ok or funny, but we are on a website that is for people who are struggling. So I’ll ask politly, please take into consideration how others might feel.
      @oliver I’m deeply sorry for this accident. I honestly had no idea why it happened, I don’t know the goal of it, but since is my post and this happened on it, I apologise.
      Don’t forget you’re loved and how much me and many others are very apreciative of your help.

    • @tanisha I forgot of a sidenote: if you want more positive people to help you, then go find others to help. No one is forcing you to talk to Oliver. He takes time of his day to reply and leave kind messages that don’t hurt anyone. However you use your words as you please without thinking twice. Once again, think what blahtherapy truly is.

    • @tanisha copying&pasting an exact comment is quite just.. unecessary I would say (sorry for typos) . You come out with the wrong image. You leave the original person who commented quite confused, just like I was aswell. But to answer to your doubt: The reason oliver leaves similar messages is that sometimes 1) people don’t reply him back with more info so he can help with the specific situation in time(I’ve done this myself due to lack of time) , 2) he has a life. So within the time he has, he tries and comments on everyone’s posts and leave kind words. He has done this for years and personally that is quite a commitment. Might not work for everyone and I get that, but I find him a briliant member of this community.
      Also I want to mention the fact you referenced his emotional state (so his posts). Again, it gives a wrong message. People who ofter are sad are the ones, ironically, who get it.
      Is no secret oliver has problems with depression , however he helped me recover from mine. So as you can see, positivity is quite subjective in terms of solutions. He might be negative to himself, but to others he’s not. I hope I explained it well?
      In terms of ”no honesty” being accepted, that is not the point. You see words are strong, they have an impact specially how you use them. Again if you read your comment you might realise it didn’t make much sense. Would be easier to ask oliver ”hey man I see you go around leaving messages, do people message you back and ask for help? I want to help too”. Literally that and he would answer, the copying&pasting just wasn’t necessary. Is why I took it as sarcasm.
      Either way, I hope things are now cleared out. I think everyone wants a nice community where they feel welcome, so let’s all try working towards it :)