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    yingyang32414 posted an update in the group Group logoGirl Talk 7 years, 6 months ago

    so my guy best friend and i have been super close for 6 years (since 7th grade) and trust each other with everything. he currently has a girlfriend and has been with her for almost a year. she’s like way psycho though and does crazy stuff all the time and anytime my friends and i tell him he needs to end it he never does. so i relate to all of this because him and i have always had feelings for one another and recently they’ve really been coming out. he tells me all the time that I’m more important then her to him and that the cares for me more which i believe but its hard because he’s still with her. I’m not really sure what i should do. he says he’s going to breakup with her because he wants to be free but idk if he’s really going to do it. like the way we talk to each other would make anyone think him and i are dating which just shows how real we are but its bc of his girlfriend that nothing can happen and he just needs to realize that him and i would be so much better. they’ve broken up so many time within the year they’ve been together and she’s super controlling of him and it isn’t healthy at all

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      Teefy replied 7 years, 6 months ago

      If you both had feelings for each other, why didn’t you confront him about it? Also, usually in this scenario it’s better to not interfere in friends’ relationship because it gets really complicated and that is also a way of being controlling. I think it’s better if you guys talk it out, it’s not healthy :( Ask him what he means by you’re more important, does he mean your friendship is more important? or does he mean you as in you’re the most important girl?

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      rinseandrep replied 7 years, 6 months ago

      @yingyang32414 I think putting your potential relationship aside until he breaks up with his girlfriend is a good plan, and maybe even slowing down your friendship a bit, it’s not a good position, to be the recipient of how much his girlfriend sucks while he flirts with you.

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      Oli replied 7 years, 6 months ago

      I would stay as close to him as possible and see how things turn out @yingyang32414, hopefully no matter what happens, you will always be a part of each others lives in some way, as long as you are there to support one another, that’s what counts, hope everything goes OK, feel free to message me anytime if you want to chat or vent, my inbox is always open :) (hugs)