No.You got me wrong bro.
I feel person himself has to be strong and composed enough to help others.Like everyone I too have my own strengths and weaknesses.
If I or anyone with intention to help/listen out is in bad mood,weak and struggling, how will that help ?
Sympathizing and complaining along with people will keep them and me continue struggling and blaming while being optimistic, choosing to overcome struggles will be beneficial for both.
I am willing to share optimism , how is that rude ?

Jay I feel like you should just disregard it because people just love to troll people online…
Be positive and stay positive
No need to let this get you down

Thanks a lot Ang

life is too important to be taken seriously. -Oscar Wilde

Trueee