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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 4 months ago

    “Life is full of grief, to exactly the degree we allow ourselves to love other people.”

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 4 months ago

    “Grief can be a burden, but also an anchor. You get used to the weight, how it holds you in place.”

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    llUNKNOWNll posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    Christmas is approaching, I’ve never ever celebrated it but I’ve always wanted to go all out with the tree, the awesome lights, the presents, mostly spending that family time together. Growing up, I never had that familial environment. I hope to Gove that to my son. This year has been hard due to me not working so, I’m hoping since I’m…[Read more]

    • Oli replied 4 months ago

      Try to have a good Christmas and New Year @llunknownll filled with happiness, love and joy, surrounded by those you care about, stay positive and always optimistic, I’m sure the year 2024 will be successful and amazing for you, keep smiling and never give up, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about…[Read more]

    • Thank you I hope this year bring you a lot of great things too!

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    llUNKNOWNll posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    Today’s my last day of therapy (by choice) I feel like I need more time with it but at the same time I feel strong enough to go on alone. I’m excited and look forward to this new year that’s coming up. I’m just grateful that I’m alive and well enough to be the best that I can.

    • I’m so proud of you @llunknownll, I hope that the therapy you had was beneficial and will truly help you feel happier and better within yourself, remember to stay positive and go out into the world with your head held high and a sense of optimism, confidence and happiness, always be kind to yourself, keep going forward with brightness and never…[Read more]

    • Thank you!! I still have a lot of work today but one day at a time is the best way to go about it.

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    Tjenare posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    A tip: Write down the best thing that has happened each day, even if it’s minor things. Its nice to look back at it when in a bad mood. It’s easy to forget the good, little, things

    • It’s so nice to see you spreading positivity and brightness here on BT @tjenare, the best thing that happened to me today is helping people here on BT and attending work with kind colleagues, keep being the awesome, fantastic and special person that you are, remember to smile brightly and always be wonderful, feel free to inbox me anytime if you…[Read more]

    • I agree. I’m trying to do the same recently

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    llUNKNOWNll posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    It feels so empty logging on. Seems like no one is here. Regardless, I will try to make this my safe space and share a bit here and there. Today wasn’t the greatest of days but I have to say that I am grateful for my son ans his happiness. I’m grateful that I will have a job again soon. I’m grateful that I got to be a SAHM for a long time. I’m…[Read more]

    • It has been quiet here on BT recently @llunknownll, hopefully one day this site will return to being an active place filled with users who support and help each other, it’s nice to see that you are grateful for your job and family, remember to always spend time with those people who make you happy and do the activities that bring you joy, try to…[Read more]

    • Thank you for your positivity and friendliness. I appreciate it. Yes, hopefully one day it’ll come back.

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    llUNKNOWNll posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    Back after so many years. I have come a long way and I hope to keep improving every day. Life is tough but it’s also a learning experience. I have learned that I am in control of most of my life, i just have to find ways and be patient. I’ll continue to work myself and be KIND to myself above anyone else<3

    • It’s great to have you back on BT @llunknownll, hope you are well and everything is going fantastically in your life, stay positive and keep being kind to yourself, make each day as wonderful as you can, keep smiling and make all your dreams come true, don’t let anything stand in the way of achieving your goals, keep moving forward with optimism…[Read more]

    • Thank you so much! That means a lot to me. It’s hard finding positivity in this world full of negativity but I know it’s out there. I too am here if you ever want to vent. I’m trying to be more open for myself and for others. I hope all is well with you too.

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    Flameaura posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    Not all in this world will be loved.

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    • Please don’t think like that @flameaura, you deserve to be loved, we all do Flameaura, please know you are a wonderful, awesome and fantastic person who deserves happiness and to feel appreciated, remember you do matter, don’t let negative thoughts get you down, surround yourself with hope, positivity and brightness, be kind to yourself and…[Read more]

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    Vishvesh posted an update 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    Been through shit aaaand back at it again. I wish I could dissolve

    Mood : Disappointed
    • Please don’t let struggles break you down @broach, try to stay as upbeat as you can Roach because you will make all your dreams come true, you deserve to feel happiness mentally, emotionally and physically, hold your head up high, keep smiling and never give up Roach, keep going forward with confidence, optimism and hope Roach, you can do it…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 5 months ago

    so grateful for my bf this year
    the holidays won’t be so lonely and dark.

    • Oli replied 5 months ago

      Hope you and your boyfriend have a wonderful holiday season together @invincible, I’m sure spending the holidays with someone special, someone you love, will truly help you feel loved, supported and taken care of, remember to stay positive, continue to grow your relationship with your boyfriend and make each day as fantastic as you can beautiful…[Read more]

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    Angel posted an update 5 months ago

    Still aliiiiiive ~ (^3^)

    • Oli replied 5 months ago

      I’m so glad you are still here @dizzydaydreamer333, it’s been pretty quiet here on BT, hope you are doing well Angel and everything is going OK in your life, remember to stay positive, be happy and focus on making each day as fantastic as you can and making all your goals come true, please know I’m always here for you, feel free to inbox me…[Read more]

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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 5 months, 1 week ago

    I am still alive, surprisingly. But man… I look back at my old posts from years ago and still find myself in the same shit. I’m such a loser if this has been going on nearly 10 years. Glad this site is still up though.

    Mood : Blank
    • I’m so glad you are still here @somelameperson, please don’t ever think negatively about yourself, you are such a fantastic, awesome and amazing person who will do fantastic things and make all your dreams come true, hold your head up high, be upbeat and keep going forward with optimism and confidence, you can do it, always believe in yourself…[Read more]

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    Katherine posted an update 5 months, 1 week ago

    Hope everyone is doing alright <3

    • I’m surviving @teamtennantgirl, hope you are doing OK and everything is going well in your life Katherine, remember to stay wonderful and always be the amazing, fantastic and lovely person that you are, keep smiling and remember you are incredible, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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    AverageGuy posted an update 5 months, 1 week ago

    What’s going on with the site? It has been, more or less down for a week. Keeps going online/offline.

    • It’s been pretty quiet here @manassasralph, it’s good to see you back on BT, hope you are well and everything is going amazingly in your life, keep smiling and always be the awesome person that you are, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Cecelia posted an update 6 months, 1 week ago

    my elderly coworker’s wife passed away. he loved her so much. did everything for her, loved her with his whole heart and life. i had a dream about him walking fast and looking upset. i always have dreams like that when someone dies before I find out. Weird. He is my best friend @ work, so wise and kind. My heart is breaking for him right now. and…[Read more]

    • I’m so sorry for your loss and for his loss too @invincible, I would be there to support your colleague and co-worker as much as you can beautiful angel Cecelia, let him know you are there to help him as a caring friend, let him share memories of his wife with you if he is able and comfortable enough too, I’m sure your co-worker will be glad…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 6 months, 2 weeks ago

    I put genuine time, effort and money into showing my appreciation and caringness for them and they can’t give me a second of human decency.

    • That’s not right at all @invincible, they should treat you with love, care, support and kindness sweetie especially when you are there to support them, don’t let them walk all over you or take advantage of your sweet nature Cecelia, they should respect and be there for you because being a loving person does work both ways sweetie, they should…[Read more]

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