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    Cecelia posted an update 6 days, 12 hours ago

    sometimes he makes me feel empty
    but sometimes he makes me feel so alive

    • if he wants me to demonstrate confidence he needs to bring me an assured sense of being wanted

    • Your boyfriend should treat you with love, care, support and kindness @invincible, he should make you feel beautiful, happy, wanted, loved and appreciated sweetheart, don’t ever let him be rude to you, make you feel empty or down, he should make you feel that you are important to him and that the relationship matters to him, I would talk to him…[Read more]

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    Katherine posted an update 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    daily reminder ~
    you are loved <3 you are valued <3 you matter <3

    • Thank you for always being so kind, sweet and lovely @teamtennantgirl, keep spreading love, compassion and goodness here on BT, hope you are doing well Katherine and things are going fantastically in your life, remember to always smile because you are beautiful, special and amazing, please know I’m always here for you Katherine, feel free to…[Read more]

    • Thank you for your kind words and right back at you!

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    blackdog posted an update 4 weeks ago

    Life is actually pretty good even though I’m severely underemployed, but as I get older my unshakable feeling that I will never find love and die alone becomes more and more of a rational prediction

    Mood : Bittersweet
    • Try to stay positive and upbeat @blackdog, I’m sure you will find the right career path and job that you will enjoy and will be beneficial for you and your bright future, you will make all your goals, hopes, dreams and aspirations come true, don’t give up on love, it may take time but I’m sure you will find the one for you, you will meet your…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 month ago

    thank you so much for your kind words on my latest posts… I appreciate it and it feels good to know you you believe in me & are rooting for me. @llunknownll

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 month ago

    day has gotten better… but the random intervals of people showing off what their SOs did for Vday is kind of annoying. esp getting texts from toxic or abusive relationships showing off what they got and how blah blah. meanwhile, i haven’t gotten what i want andneed. an apology from this morning. i dont want, expect or care much for the…[Read more]

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      I would talk to him about how he is treating you @invincible, be open and honest with him beautiful angel Cecelia, it’s up to him to listen and change his ways so you can strengthen your relationship together, I want to see you feeling truly happy sweetie and being treated right angel Cecelia, hope everything works out positively sweetheart,…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 month ago

    too stunned rn because my valentine’s morning consisted of my bf angrily snapping at me over the phone so i’m feeling real great rn.

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      That’s not OK @invincible, your boyfriend should treat you with love, care, support and kindness every day but especially on this day, he should apologise to you sweetie and try to make things right because you deserve so much better angel Cecelia, remember you deserve to feel loved, looked after and taken care of by your partner, do your best to…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 1 month ago

    I should know enough about loss to realize that you never really stop missing someone-you just learn to live around the huge gaping hole of their absence. ~Alyson Noel

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      Try to stay focused on all the good times and moments you spent with that person @helplessandhelpful1996, it can be difficult to be without them, but you will get through it, make each day as bright as you can, and fill it with positive memories, you can do it, keep going forward with optimism and never give up, feel free to inbox me anytime if…[Read more]

    • thanks im trying my best its still super fresh wound and it hurts alot loosing someone i cared so much for

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    llUNKNOWNll posted an update 1 month, 1 week ago

    So, since my last post I have begun working after some time off. I thought the transition would be harder because I have to leave my son at home but it has been going surprisingly well. I miss him of course but since I’m busy all day, it goes by very fast so I feel like I’m not gone for too long. Also, I actually returned to counseling/therapy.…[Read more]

    • Keep working as hard as you can but remember it’s OK to take breaks to relax and rest when you need too @llunknownll, please know you are a wonderful, caring and awesome parent who is doing their absolute best to support their child, it’s so brave and courageous that you have returned to therapy and counselling, I’m sure it will help so you can…[Read more]

    • Thank you for your kind words. I really appreciate you.

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 month, 1 week ago

    Right now its a rough patch but I feel like I’m about to go over the hill of happiness and success soon. Just right now I am overwhelmed and stressed, I moved in with BF and our place is a mess right now and cluttered and blegh, I have to bring my cat over to adjust the next next weekend that’ll be stressful.. I started a new job (soooo much…[Read more]

    • I don’t think a lot of young men understand how frustrating it is to be aroused but cannot do anything about it because you are so insecure or your insecurity botches the encounter u have with ur partner.

    • You will be OK @invincible, do focus on getting your home completed and on being successful in your new job sweetie, I’m sure you will get everything sorted in a positive way sweetheart, remember to relax when you need too and take time to make yourself feel calm and positive mentally, physically and emotionally by doing your favourite hobbies…[Read more]

    • Thank you for sharing @invincible. It’s never easy going through a lot of changes. It’s going to take some time to adjust. I’m glad that you are happier at your new job. I can relate on the hardship of accepting our bodies for how they are sometimes. I hope that you come to love and accept your self in every way possible. You got this!

    • thank you so much!

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    llUNKNOWNll posted an update 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    Happy New Year to anyone reading this. I hope this year gives you more happiness, self-love, and progress than 2023. This year I want to travel somewhere new, strengthen my boundaries, increase my self-love and reach out more to others around me. I tend to isolate. Anywho, I hope all is well this year. I’m feeling optimistic.

    • Hope you have a good 2024 @llunknownll, keep spreading as much love, kindness and compassion as you can, remember to always do what makes you happy, I’m sure you will do all the great things you want to do and more, stay upbeat, keep smiling and never give up, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

    • Thank you!! I will always try my best as long as I can. I appreciate you.

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    life evolution and changes can b very scary esp when ur traumatized from ur whole childhood n early adulthood

    but i want it more than i want to stay comfortable and miserable.

    i’ll be comfortable and happy after i run thru this storm

    just cannot lose myself and my willpower, my humor and my creativity

    Mood : Anxious
    • Trauma and life changes, evolutions and challenges can make us feel anxious and wary of what lies ahead @invincible, but remember to never let those hurdles break you down sweetie, you are so brave, strong and courageous because you have overcome so much beautiful Cecelia, look ahead towards the bright, amazing and wonderful future that will be…[Read more]

    • That’s awesome that you want to get out of your comfort zone so to say. It really is scary and I commend you for going through the hardships to reach beyond.

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    Magicka Dude posted an update 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    bit really worried but the site seemed to a lot more active i the past

    Mood : Worried
    • What’s on your mind @magicka-dude, please know I’m always here if you ever need to talk, vent or chat about anything, it has been really quiet here on BT as of late, but hopefully one day this site will return to being an active place filled with kindness, compassion and love where we all help and support each other, feel free to inbox me…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 3 months ago

    “The weird, weird thing about devastating loss is that life actually goes on. When you’re faced with a tragedy, a loss so huge that you have no idea how you can live through it, somehow, the world keeps turning, the seconds keep ticking.”

    • Oli replied 3 months ago

      It can feel strange that life does go on when you have suffered a tremendous loss but remember to always focus on the happier, positive and upbeat moments you had with the person you lost, keep them in your heart and in your memories @helplessandhelpful1996, know that you will make it through this loss and come out feeling stronger and ready to…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 3 months ago

    “So it’s true, when all is said and done, grief is the price we pay for love.”

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 3 months ago

    “Life is full of grief, to exactly the degree we allow ourselves to love other people.”

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 3 months ago

    “Grief can be a burden, but also an anchor. You get used to the weight, how it holds you in place.”

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    llUNKNOWNll posted an update 3 months ago

    Christmas is approaching, I’ve never ever celebrated it but I’ve always wanted to go all out with the tree, the awesome lights, the presents, mostly spending that family time together. Growing up, I never had that familial environment. I hope to Gove that to my son. This year has been hard due to me not working so, I’m hoping since I’m…[Read more]

    • Oli replied 3 months ago

      Try to have a good Christmas and New Year @llunknownll filled with happiness, love and joy, surrounded by those you care about, stay positive and always optimistic, I’m sure the year 2024 will be successful and amazing for you, keep smiling and never give up, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about…[Read more]

    • Thank you I hope this year bring you a lot of great things too!

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