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    Just_a_guy posted an update 31 minutes ago

    Life is like a jigsaw puzzle … people like me can only help you in finding and connecting the puzzle pieces … but only you can complete the puzzle ❤️

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    Cecelia posted an update 11 hours, 28 minutes ago

    I can’t help but feel upset when I see my friend who I’ve known for a while, who was so similar to me and growing to be mature – just completely throw everything away for a severely questionable life. It’s not fun watching people go downhill and now I have like no solid friendship that I can count on since I’ve cut off a lot of toxic people.…[Read more]

    • It’s frustrating to see how people you love makes questionable decisions that might not end very well for them. Sometimes you can not help them, since they will not listen either wanting your help. But in the end, when they find themselves in the bottom, they finally see by themselves how bad things were going and start to rethink all the bad…[Read more]

    • You are such a beautiful angel who deserves good people in her life @invincible, I would try to stick by your friend if you can, let them know you are there to support them so they can make positive changes and wise choices so they will better themselves Cecelia, give your friend as much insightful advice as you can, it’s up to them to listen and…[Read more]

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    hwky75 posted an update 13 hours, 13 minutes ago

    I don’t know if anyone will see this but I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m just frustrated and sad that my anxiety and depression isn’t getting better. It just feels like nothing matters that nothing is worth it. Idk what I’m doing anymore

    Mood : Sad
    • It’s ok, I am here if you need to or want to talk. Unfortunately it can seem like it will never get better, but it almost always does and it definitely can, try to not be too overwhelmed, just take it easy, do something you enjoy and try to have some hope

    • Depression and anxiety are like two big rocks that are resting on your back, and they get heavier every day, until the weigh is too much to carry. But nothing it’s forever in this world, and those hards times you’re going through will end too. You’ll get out of this, give yourself all the time you need right now and when you feel stronger, keep…[Read more]

    • Please don’t let depression and anxiety get you down @hwky75, you are a brilliant, amazing and special person who deserves a life that is truly filled with happiness, hope and joy, focus on all the things that give you purpose in life and always believe in yourself, so many more brighter days are ahead for you, keep going forward and never give…[Read more]

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    Oli posted an update 13 hours, 50 minutes ago

    I’m so alone in this world, nobody cares about me, I’m always going to be this lost, pathetic and sad failure, it doesn’t get better for Oli, he is forever stuck in this hole of depression and loneliness, I want to give up and stop bothering, every day is a struggle to find the reasons to continue with my awful existence, seriously I would be…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • Oli, you are beyond valuable and it really shows on this website. You are incredibly kind, helpful and we are always here for you- we will never leave you or stop caring because you are special to all of us here on blahtherapy. Things will get better because you are an inspiring, wonderful human being.

    • We all believe in you Oli, you are capable of going through this. Remember all the beautiful words that you give us every day, because you too deserve them, all of them and even more. Right now you might feel weak and hopeless, but we are here to give you the support and streght you need. Do not give up, you can with this!!

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    Oli posted an update 1 day, 14 hours ago

    I just want to give up, I have no one in this world, I’m so sick of trying, everyone leaves or abandons me eventually, depression and loneliness are the only things I have in this numb ‘life’ and ‘existence’, I’m sorry everyone, all of my statuses are so negative and bleak, nothing will ever change or get better for me, it was my destiny to…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • Change seldom comes from the outside world. A vast majority of the time, it comes from within. You’ve got to try and be the change that you want to see in your life. No one is promising you it will be easy, no one is promising you a rose garden; But once you accomplish it, you will see your life take a turn for the better.

    • Change seldom comes from the outside world. A vast majority of the time, it comes from within. You’ve got to try and be the change that you want to see in your life. No one is promising you it will be easy, no one is promising you a rose garden; But once you accomplish it, you will see your life take a turn for the better.

    • Change seldom comes from the outside world. A vast majority of the time, it comes from within. You’ve got to try and be the change that you want to see in your life. No one is promising you it will be easy, no one is promising you a rose garden; But once you accomplish it, you will see your life take a turn for the better.

    • Change seldom comes from the outside world. A vast majority of the time, it comes from within. You’ve got to try and be the change that you want to see in your life. No one is promising you it will be easy, no one is promising you a rose garden; But once you accomplish it, you will see your life take a turn for the better.

    • There are periods of time in our lives when everythings seems surrounded by darkness and despair, and we can’t see any way out of it. It’s going to be hard, but nothing lasts forever, and these hard times you’re going through will end too. @Oli you are a wonderful human being, full of kindness, compassion and empathy. You’ve helped so, so many…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 days, 18 hours ago

    It just would be nice if you had faith in me and trusted my skill.
    I have enough confidence to know I’m not going to mess up.

    • Do what makes you happy and know you will achieve all your hopes, dreams, goals and aspirations @invincible, I believe in you Cecelia and so do many others sweetie, do have faith in yourself too and believe in yourself hun, so many people are proud of you Cecelia, the BT community is rooting for you and so am I, anyone who doubts your skills and…[Read more]

    • Cecelia, Sometimes when we are self conscious, or insecure in ourselves, we project it onto others. Have you tried a face to face, sit down talk with this person? They may very well just be projecting. I wouldn’t have accepted friendship from you if I didn’t think you were capable of greatness. Take a step back, evaluate, adjust, and succeed,…[Read more]

    • It can be very frustrating when other people don’t have faith in you, but you’ve pointed out the important thing in the matter: you trust in yourself and know you are capable of achieving your goals. Trust your own strenght Cecilia, because if you believe in yourself, you’ll achieve anything you aim for. You are capable of anything!

    • thank you all so much, this really means a lot – really!

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    lovers00 posted an update 4 days, 11 hours ago

    im back guys so much shit happened i dated this guy named Aiden in georgia i broke up with him bc i dont like him anymore and he called me a hoe and said he was gonna cut my throat open and drink my blood wtf but its fine im moving back to miami and im happy oh and im talking to Nick again im so happy im kinda falling for him again but im scared i…[Read more]

    Mood : Confused
    • It’s good that you have someone in your life who loves you and treats you right @lovers00, but do focus on other things as well, everyone needs romance in life but remember to surround yourself with hobbies/interests too, you are a good person who deserves to be truly happy and feel wonderful, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

    • Well, you might be in love with the idea of falling in love. It usually takes 4 months to psychologically fall in love – but I think that’s ok, and I hope you can continue feeling happy

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    Cecelia posted an update 5 days, 11 hours ago

    you must put out the energy you wish to receive

    • You will find the energy to do amazing things @invincible, I want to see you feeling truly wonderful and focusing on all the things that bring hope, happiness and joy into your life Cecelia, make all your dreams come true and never give up sweetie, you can do it Cecelia, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

    • You must have the energy that you wish to receive.

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    ErmaAnne posted an update 6 days, 3 hours ago

    Once again, spammers galore. This site has gone down the tubes. It totally sucks now.

    Mood : Angry
    • Certainly, it is a pity that there’s no more activity, and that it’s beginninig to be invaded by spammers and bots. Fortunately, there are still good people you can count on here. It’s a matter of having patience.

    • It can be very frustrating and annoying @ermacro, don’t let the trolls, spammers and bots get you down, there are many more compassionate, kind and sweet members of BT who are here to help and support each other, hopefully this site will one day become more active, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week ago

    Doing okay. I hope things get better, though.

    Hope everyone is doing well – have a fantastic week!

    • Oli replied 1 week ago

      Glad to see things are going well for you @invincible, I want to see you truly smiling and feeling wonderful Cecelia, keep smiling and always be the beautiful, incredible and special angel that you are sweetie, stay positive hun and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • Nice to read that things are doing okay for you @invincible. I bet everything will get better soon, and you can always reach us here if you need anything. Have a fantastic week you too!

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    Marta posted an update 1 week, 1 day ago

    I hope everyone is having a good day! If things are not going as expected, remember that tomorrow will be another day, full of new possibilities. We are here if you need a talk, and stay strong everybody!

    Mood : Contented
    • Oli replied 1 week ago

      Hope you are having a fabulous day @m1s1m3, keep being the kind, compassionate, sweet and lovely angel that you are Marta, you are so supportive to all of us in the BT community, BT is so lucky and grateful to have someone like you here, smile and stay beautiful Marta, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone…[Read more]

    • Hope you had a great day too @Oli! Thanks for your kind words, as always :) . You’re the one true angel here on BT, without you this won’t be the same. Stay strong and keep being the amazing and kind human being that you are (hugs!!).

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    justkeepswimming posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    I want to be the type of person who just doesn’t give a fuck about what other people think, but I’m the exact opposite. I care about everything people think no matter who they are; be it stranger, close friend, or family. If something awkward or intimidating happens, I can’t help but get super nervous and run from confrontation. I would LOVE to…[Read more]

    Mood : Annoyed
    • I don’t like argument or confrontation as well @rolivia128, I tend to walk away from that sort of thing if it happens, it’s good that you want to please others, but do remember the only person who truly matters is yourself, you should do what makes you happy, regardless of what others may think, be yourself and keep going, everything will be OK,…[Read more]

    • We usually think that other people are really focused on ourselves. When I was younger I used to think that I had to please everyone so I could like them. With every year I grow older, the more I realize that other people are too worried about their own lives to be focused on me. Of course, there always be some of them that will talk about you,…[Read more]

    • That’s so interesting that you say that you had to please everybody so you could like them. That makes so much sense but I’ve never thought of it that way. I guess I just have so many criticisms for myself that I tend to judge others immediately based off of my own insecurities. Therefore, depending on what kind of day it is, I’ll either like…[Read more]

    • Thanks Oli! You’re very optimistic.

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    justkeepswimming posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    Happy Mother’s Day to all the great women out there.

    Mood : Grateful
    • Hope you have a wonderful mother’s day too @rolivia128, do have a great day as well and keep being the awesome person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    Had a great day.
    Happy Mother’s Day ♥

    • Glad you had a wonderful day @invincible, keep smiling and always be the beautiful, special and incredible angel that you are Cecelia, remember you are a bright ray of sunshine inside and out sweetie, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

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    Flameaura posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    Anyone here from Singapore? Need a lil help with my school project!

    Mood : Worried
    • I’m not from Singapore @flameaura, but I can try to help you, I’m sure you will do great in your studies, do work hard and you will be successful no matter what, stay positive and keep going, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    Trauma and mental illness is not something to make you look ”cool” or ”cooler” than other people. I wish my friend would stop trying to ’one up’ me with trauma. It’s not funny or amusing at all. I personally would never do that to anyone. Maybe if I was 7 years old …

    • Your friend really should support you instead of trying to make it a competition of who has it worse @invincible, I want to see you truly happy and surrounded by compassion, love and empathy Cecelia, please know you will win all your battles and come out so much stronger sweetie, you are a survivor who never gives up, believe in yourself and keep…[Read more]

    • Seems like your friend does not really understand how hard mental illnesses are. Maybe explaining them how does it feel and the suffering you go through, they can get to empathize with you. Most of these attitudes come from ignorance, not malice.

    • Very true Marta.

    • Sounds like your friend is a little competitive and dealing with her own hardships as well. Maybe confront her about how it makes you feel when she puts your feelings on the back burner and makes hers the main priority. Obviously both are important, but there comes a time when a friend just needs to be there to listen. A little give and take.…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 4 days ago

    I love it when it is windy and stormy outside.
    Though not a fan of 100 degrees F.

    • Hope the weather is good where you live @invincible, do take care of yourself and have a fantastic day sweetie, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent about anything Cecelia, inbox me anytime hun, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

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